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  • Essay 2 min read

    That’s Just Like Me

    My daughter is the cutest little thing. I know everyone says that about their kids, but here is my submission as proof. Lucie struggles with almost everything, she has what most people call ‘complex needs’. She relies …

  • Essay 1 min read

    Lucie loves shoes

    I guess one of the things you realise when you have kids, or you’re around a lot of them, is that they all have weird obsessions. You expect the usual superheroes, or horses or fire engines, but my daughter is obsessed …

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    I’m Proud Of You

    Being the parent of a disabled child, I’m well aware that I need to curb my enthusiasm towards things. But today I am so proud of Lucie. Not because she did anything special, or achieved anything anywhere near the …

  • Essay 1 min read

    Sunrise

    Lucie woke us up at a ridiculous time this morning, but instead of wallowing in our tiredness we decided to get up and watch the sunrise. What could have been a terrible sleep deprived morning turned into one of the most …

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    A Young Carer

    Whenever I write about my daughter and share it with others they always say how lucky I am to have such an inspiration. That of course is true, but I am lucky enough to in-fact have two of them. Because although our …

  • Essay 4 min read

    My Government Hates Disabled People

    It isn’t very often I tap away on my keyboard in rage, but today is an exception to the rule. Publishing something in the heat of the moment is a stupid idea; I have a few hours to calm down and see if my emotions …

  • Essay 2 min read

    Nothing Has Changed In 2 Years

    A few years ago I used to write a lot about Lucie. Mention her a lot in posts about my life and also wrote a few from her perspective. Making light of situations when in reality it was my way of coping with feelings and …

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    Oh Hello 4Am

    For all of the time Lucie has been with us I have become accustomed to being awake at ridiculous times of the morning. Autism has provided some truly magical things in our life, but some truly difficult things too. …